Complaining is not the edge of patience

 

Complaining is not the edge of patience...its not… if you complain, if you've cried out and you're sad over smthing and you mention it, even though it happened years ago. That dznt mean you dnt have patience. Those are two separate things. So we shdnt be insensitive to those who're suffering in our families, friends. Those who are complaing and you say you need to have patience, you shdnt be crying, you shdnt be complaing.. you shdnt be briniging up what hppnd years ago. get over it already. We shdnt use these kinds of words.

we shd have sensitivity for those who are in pain and especially when you're the reason for it. it's right we cannot feel what sombody else feels. you cannot feel what your son feels, your daughter feels, your spouse feels, what your parents feels.. you cannot feel for exactly what they are feeling. they're entitled to their emotion, .. its easy to dismiss them because we see them out happy with everyone around and we dnt see what the big deal is. you will never be able to see, i will never be able to see inside someone els's heart what they are actually going through... That is their pain is between them and their GOD. But that doesn't give you the right to become insensitive towards their feelings especially when they expect from you no matter what the reason at your end is, you should not be insensitive.. I understand there will be situation where you won't be able to help directly but it's an obligation on you as a  human being to respond to them with politeness, with your presence, with your soft words. This is all you can do and should do.